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4/11/2018

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"We need to have faith to embrace the new reality and run with it.  And when that new reality radically differs from our past, we need to let go of the past and start again."
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The many changes announced in the most recent General Conference bring a feeling of starting a new chapter in LDS history.  I’m not certain most of us anticipated such sweeping announcements.  Yet those of us with faith will embrace the new reality and run with it.

In like manner, life brings to each of us sweeping, unanticipated changes.  Perhaps you’ve reached a certain age without getting married.  Or that marriage you thought would last forever won’t.  Or you experience a job loss.  The variety of surprises life can bring has no end.  And they often come when we least expect them.

I believe the best response to unanticipated, unwanted events is the same best response to the most recent General Conference.  We need to have faith to embrace the new reality and run with it.  And when that new reality radically differs from our past, we need to let go of the past and start again.

Make it work

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Letting go can be one of the most difficult challenges in life.  You like the way things were.  You were comfortable.  And you don’t want to have the extra work changes often requires.

Yet successful people never confront life as they wish it would be.  They confront life as it really is.  They do the best they can with what they have.  And they make it work.

And what exactly do you have?  You have your Heavenly Father, with Whom you can counsel through prayer.  You have the Lord Jesus Christ, Who suffered so you could have new life.  You have the Holy Ghost, Who can provide revelation, comfort, and strength.  You have angels and the powers of heaven upon which you can call when you keep your covenants.  You have family, friends, and the Church which can each provide their own measure of support.

Considering what you have, is there any challenge you cannot overcome?  As the apostle Paul declared, “I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me” (Philippians 4:13).

Let it go

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Letting go of the past is often the first step in embracing a new reality.  It can also be one of the most difficult.

Earlier in my life, I had a really sweet job.  I worked remotely for an East Coast company while living on the West Coast.  I had complete mobility both with my physical location and (within reason) my schedule during the day.  I also made some good money with the gig.  I had residences in two different states and traveled between them at will.  Life was sweet.

Then came the word from HQ.  Financial conditions necessitated massive layoffs.  Half of my peers would lose their jobs.  I thought my superior job performance and delivery record would keep me safe.

Then I got my notice.  I was the first to lose his job.  The shock left me speechless.  For some time thereafter I was paralyzed.  That paralysis evolved into a deep depression as other life events knocked me down.  You can tell I’m not depressed today, so what happened?  How did I leave my depression?

I took action.  I started doing what the Lord inspired me to do, whatever it was.  Completing even small tasks built my confidence and helped me to regain my faith in myself and my future.  Slowly but surely, with the help of the Lord, I began to process of rebuilding my life.  I started again.

Embrace reality

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Accepting that whatever bad thing happened to you actually happened to you requires a great deal of courage.  But holding on to a past that doesn’t resemble the present reality is just extra baggage holding you back from moving forward in life.

Sometimes you need to take a new approach.  And sometimes that new approach involves starting again.

I’ve had to start again in my own life at least seven times.  That’s just the number of unanticipated change events from my life that come quickly to mind.  I might find more if I really stop and think about it.

Still, it’s fair to say I’ve got a fair amount of experience with starting again.  Here’s one of the lessons I’ve learned — starting again usually seems daunting and overwhelming at first but always gets easier once you dig in and start embracing the change with a positive attitude and effective actions.

It’s also helpful to remember everything you have.  As I mentioned earlier, you have many in your corner rooting for you because they love you and want you to succeed.  You can conquer any life-altering challenge before you when you start again.  Embracing the change and making the most of it will help you to become everything your Heavenly Father wants you to become.  And that will bring you more joy in our journey.

You can listen to the monologue from today's episode of Joy In The Journey Radio here.  Please also feel free to continue the conversation by leaving a comment below.  Want to hear more?  Listen to the whole show by going to the show page for this episode!
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