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Simplify the season

12/11/2019

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If we truly desire to celebrate the real reason for the season, then we need to keep that Reason in our focus.
On Sunday the First Presidency continued its tradition of hosting a Christmas devotional at the start of the holiday season.  Technically, many such as myself begin to gear up for Christmas once Thanksgiving has passed, but let’s not split hairs.  It is Christmas, after all, and all celebrations of the real reason for the season are most welcome.

On that note, the speakers did not disappoint.  I found myself in the same position I often fill when needing to select an address from the latest General Conference as a topic for a Joy in the Journey Radio program.  There’s just so much that is so good.
Then I thought that I should consider what I personally will take from the devotional and use that action to signal me towards the speaker and the message I should use for the program today.  And that approach led me to Elder Patrick Kearon.  In his remarks entitled “Bringing Christmas Into Focus,” Elder Kearon described an increased focus on the Savior gained from simplifying the season.  If we truly desire to celebrate the real reason for the season, then we need to keep that Reason in our focus.  And we can do that more easily when we simplify the season.

Examine your traditions

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Like other holidays involving family gatherings, Christmas carries with it many traditions.  These traditions can bind us closer to family members and create wonderful memories of the holiday season that will give joy long after their creation.

Yet, as Elder Kearon rightly points out, those traditions can bring added stress from the sheer quantity of tasks to accomplish that we can lose our focus on the reasons for our celebrations.  We can become so absorbed in the logistics surrounding our celebrations that we forget the foundation for those celebrations.

Remembering that foundation usually comes in still, quiet moments of reflection.  Elder Kearon spoke of his enjoyment of staring at Christmas tree lights and how they remind him of the Light of the world.


These kind of quiet moments of meditation and reflection can be all too rare for us in the buildup to the Christmas Day.  December brings with it parties and concerts, gatherings and gifts.  Schedules fill up.  And sometimes the expectations we impose upon ourselves actually take away from the joy of the season rather than magnifying it.

So President Nelson’s teaching is vital: “The joy we feel has little to do with the circumstances of our lives and everything to do with the focus of our lives.  When the focus of our lives is on God’s plan of salvation . . . and Jesus Christ and His gospel, we can feel joy regardless of what is happening — or not happening — in our lives.  Joy comes from and because of Him.  He is the source of all joy.”

This is the perfect occasion for us to prayerfully consider our focus.  What are your hopes for this Christmas season?  What are your sincere desires for yourself and your loved ones as you gather together for this most holy of holy days?

In two and a half weeks, Christmas Day will be here.  Consider what you have on your calendar for the next two and a half weeks.  You may feel overwhelmed by too many commitments and all that you have to do.  Is your schedule too packed?  Are certain cultural traditions and pressures causing you undue stress and preventing you from receiving and reflecting the joy of Christ’s birth?  How might you simplify your calendar this Christmas and plan better for next?  We must be careful and not to be so busy and tired from trying to do too much that we miss the focus of the season and are unable to figuratively kneel at the manger, worship the newborn King, and bring our own personal gift to Him.

Refine your traditions

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As I pondered Elder Kearon’s questions, I saw great wisdom behind them.  I could see that, especially in the last few years, my own focus during Christmas time has been obscured by adopting the tradition of buying gifts for each member of the family, including the extended family with in-laws, nieces, and nephews.

This didn’t happen all at once.  But it crept upon me so slowly I hardly know when it began.  We give gifts to remind us of the gift God has given all of us in His Only Begotten.  Yet I could see how my approach to that tradition — buying a separate gift for each individual — had created unneeded effort and expense that distracts my focus away from God’s gift of His Son.

It wasn’t always that way.  In my younger days, I needed to obtain only four gifts — one for each parent and one for each sibling.  But as life unfolded and extended families appeared and grew, that number has multiplied.  Now, looking at the added expense as a college student, I think Elder Kearon’s questions are more than appropriate; they are essential for feeling the joy and peace that should attend the Christmas season.

Resolve to simplify

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In response, I have determined to simply my gift giving.  Instead of a separate present for each individual, I will once more give four gifts: one for each parent and one for the family of each sibling.

And I determined to gift something I had never before gifted — treats and time.  By gifting a box of snacks, I provide my extended families with an excuse to spend time together as they gather to partake and share the goodies I gifted.  Thus, the real gift was the chance to make treasured holiday memories.

The best part for me was how simple it all was.  One visit to Amazon and I had everything purchased with instructions on where to ship everything.  It was all done in a matter or minutes, and I felt looking back a peace that comes from making the right choice.

How will you simplify your Christmas season so that you can focus more on the Savior?  Will you do as I did and adjust your gift giving?  Perhaps you will take Elder Kearon’s suggestion to embrace temple service that “corrects our focus, magnifies our joy, and unites families here and on the other side of the veil.”  Or maybe the Spirit has inspired you along a different direction.

Whatever your situation, take action to simplify the season this Christmastime.  When you do, you can focus more on Christ and feel more clearly His peace.  And that will bring you more joy in your journey.

You can listen to the monologue from today's episode of Joy In The Journey Radio here.  Please also feel free to continue the conversation by leaving a comment below.  Want to hear more?  Listen to the whole show by going to the show page for this episode.
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