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Never say die

1/10/2018

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"Darkness may surround you now, but that darkness will not last forever.  No trial comes into our lives to stay; sooner or later they all pass.  Partner with the Lord and let His strength become your strength.  Let His faith become your faith.  Let His confidence become your confidence."
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Life holds many challenges, and LDS singles life is no exception.  Whether you never married, are divorced, or are widowed, heartache can cripple you emotionally and obscure your view of a bright future.

But just because you can’t see a bright tomorrow doesn’t mean that bright tomorrow won’t come.  Day always follows night; it’s natural law.  And it’s always darkest just before the dawn.

It’s easy to believe in that dawn when the light shines over the horizon.  It’s harder to believe in the dawn when the darkness is all you can see.  How do you resist the call of pessimism to abandon all hope?

You do it with faith.  You must have a vision of what you can become.  You must believe in that vision and your own ability to realize that vision.  And you must have the resiliency to go the distance needed to make that vision reality.  You must never say die.

Choose your vision

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It takes faith to a have a vision of what you can become.  It takes even more faith to believe you can achieve that vision.  Where does such faith originate?

It comes from the source of all true faith — the Lord Jesus Christ.  His restored gospel teaches us that through Him we can all become something more and return to live with our Heavenly Father.  And in what must be the grandest glorification of God, we can also be like Him.

Indeed, the realization of such a vision is a commandment:


Therefore I would that ye should be perfect even as I, or your Father who is in heaven is perfect. . . .  And know ye that ye shall be judges of this people, according to the judgment which I shall give unto you, which shall be just. Therefore, what manner of men ought ye to be? Verily I say unto you, even as I am. (3 Nephi 12:48; 27:27)
Just like every other commandment, the Lord will provide the way to accomplish it.

And it came to pass that I, Nephi, said unto my father: I will go and do the things which the Lord hath commanded, for I know that the Lord giveth no commandments unto the children of men, save he shall prepare a way for them that they may accomplish the thing which he commandeth them. (1 Nephi 3:7)
As I’ve pointed out earlier, Nephi was single when he uttered those inspirational words.  He went on to achieve great things.  We who are single can be just as inspirational and achieve just as great things in our own lives.

Choose your road

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Walking that path of faith isn’t easy.  But it’s not impossible.  And it’s a lot more joyful than any alternative.

The Lord won’t abandon you.  He loves you so much He willingly suffered a tortuous death.  Love that strong means He won’t stop until you have every blessing you will receive.

Note that I said “will receive.”  Great as His love is for you, the Lord will not violate individual agency.  He won’t force blessings upon you.  That means you have to choose.

You must choose light over darkness.  You must choose optimism over pessimism.  You must choose confidence over doubt.  You must choose faith over fear.

Many are so much more comfortable with pessimism, doubt, and fear that choosing this low road is much easier.  But that choice also means accepting darkness and all its attendant disillusionment and despair as your reality.

Don’t sell yourself short or live beneath your potential!  Don’t give up on yourself!  The Lord believes in you and your potential.  He could never lead you into everlasting failure.  Everything He has done and continues to do is so that you can become everything you were meant to become.

God never stopped believing in you.  Will you not take Him at His word?

Choose your difference

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Your blessings are real.  They’re not vain imaginations of your yearning soul nor wishful whims of fancy.  They are real, and you can achieve them because God has decreed it.

Don’t you dare give up on yourself!  You and your contributions are far too valuable to sit idly on the sidelines of history.  God has reserved you for this time and place because you have goodness which only you can give.  Choose to make that difference by leaning on He Who is the difference for all of us.

Darkness may surround you now, but that darkness will not last forever.  No trial comes into our lives to stay; sooner or later they all pass.  Partner with the Lord and let His strength become your strength.  Let His faith become your faith.  Let His confidence become your confidence.

Never say die.  It’s not over until you win.  When you adopt that attitude, you can do the impossible.  And that will bring you more joy in your journey.

You can listen to the monologue from today's episode of Joy In The Journey Radio here.  Please also feel free to continue the conversation by leaving a comment below.  Want to hear more?  Listen to the whole show by going to the show page for this episode!
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    Howdy! I'm Lance, host of Joy in the Journey Radio. I've been blogging about LDS singles life since 2012, and since 2018 I've been producing a weekly Internet radio show and podcast to help LDS singles have  more joy in their journey and bring all Latter-day Saints together. Let's engage a conversation that will increase the faith of LDS singles and bring singles and marrieds together in a true unity of the faith.

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